How do I get rid of the losers and get the guy for me?
By: Samantha Strong
Today I just met a guy who was so attractive, only to be lost for words and have him walk away when I had nothing to say. I was devastated! And then, just when I thought I couldn't feel any worse, up came a guy who, well, let's just say I would never be interested in him! He started talking and, to my surprise, I found myself talking easily with him. It was then that the worst thing happened. I looked up to find that dreamy guy looking my way and seeing me wrapped up in conversation. No!
How many times has this happened to you? Why is it that we feel like we always kill off our opportunities? Why couldn't I have had the easy conversation with the guy that mattered? What if it could be that way? What if we could always get rid of the losers and get the guy?
Of course I could start by suggesting having a drink before you go out, but creating a crutch like that is hardly helpful (and won't help you keep the guy!).
Friends weren't much use either, they said if I wanted to get the guy for me rather than get the losers I just had to be more positive, I just had to relax, or whatever. |
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I tried meditation. I tried many healing techniques, and they all had their place, but still nothing was working.
Finally though I found something that could really help me get rid of the losers and get the guy for me.
Here's my secret. I studied some basic hypnosis techniques. (No, it's nothing like what you see if you go to a stage show!) The short story is that slowly but surely, as I learned new techniques, people seemed to give me more respect! I was more relaxed, and before I knew it I actually did land the guy for me! It was incredible. I have never looked back, and now I can look forward - to wedding bells in June!
I hope you can find the same joy as you travel on your journey.